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7 Things Men Shouldn't Apologize Or Feel Guilty About

7 Things Men Shouldn't Apologize Or Feel Guilty About

It is a virtue to have the courage to apologize when you are wrong, and to do so when you are innocent is self-sabotage. And although there are times when men tend to get down on their knees in front of their partners and apologize just to end an quarrel. The cost to do so is usually rather high. Yes, it is undeniable that some women like men who have the guts to accept their mistakes gracefully and take responsibility for their mistakes. But when you do it without actually going wrong, it becomes a problem. Not only does it put you at risk of being taken for granted. It also lowers your self-esteem and triggers feelings of insecurity. So the next time you're thinking about apologizing, make sure it's not because of any of the following. Here are 7 things men should never apologize for or feel guilty about:


1. Not expressive enough

Thanks to society and the conditioning that makes men think showing emotions is bad and hateful. Many men around us suffer from a teaspoon of emotional capacity as a result. And since this is the only way men know how to live for a while, you don't have to apologize for it.

2. Over-expression

While many men find it difficult to show feelings, there are also a group of men who dislike to abstain from "feelings". If you are one of them, never feel the need to apologize for overexerting or over-expressing yourself. It is not only healthy, but natural and should be encouraged.

3. Say "No"

While the whole concept of saying "no" is mostly associated with women. On the other hand, men are considered to be always ready with anything you throw at them. It's important to remind yourself that you can also say "no" and respect that. You are human like everyone else and you should never apologize for disagreeing with everything someone asks of you.

4. Your beliefs

As humans, We are all different with a different set of thoughts and different belief systems that govern us. Some of us might believe in completely different things than others, and that's totally fine. There is absolutely no reason to apologize for defending your beliefs.

5. Take some time for yourself

Whether it's a men's night out, a solo trip, or just a few hours at the spa or on the grassy grounds, men shouldn't feel guilty or apologize for taking time for themselves. Even though it's okay to make profits and be responsible for many things. However, taking responsibility for your mental health and peace should also be a priority and should not be accompanied by an apology.

6. Tell the truth

By that, we don't mean that you should change your answer when your girlfriend asks if she looks okay. However, when it comes to the most important truths in life, you should never ask for forgiveness to express what you think. You have the right to speak your truth and it should never be followed by an apology, because although it may be bitter, being honest is never wrong.

7. Asking questions

No matter how clear, stupid, sharp, or curious your question is, you no need to apologize for being curious. It's okay not to know everything, and asking that shouldn't make you feel like you're doing something wrong.  Unless, what you are asking is the woman's age, in which case I wish you luck.

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